Picture this: You’re at the dog park, and two dogs are rolling around, growling, and snapping at each other.
So, are these dogs playing or fighting? It’s a question every dog owner has asked at least once.
Understanding the difference between play and aggression is crucial for keeping your pup safe and ensuring everyone has a good time.
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All right, let's talk about something
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every single dog owner has felt. That
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moment of panic when you're not quite
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sure, are they playing or are they
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actually fighting? So, picture it.
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You're at the dog park. Everything's
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great. And then you see it. A blur of
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fur. You hear growling, maybe some
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snapping. Your heart just leaps into
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your throat, right? What do you do? Do
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you run in? Do you call your dog? It's
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so tough to know what's really happening
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in that moment. And that right there is
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the million-dollar question, isn't it?
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Because telling the difference when
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things get well intense, it's incredibly
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difficult. And look, getting it wrong,
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that can have some pretty serious
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consequences. Yeah, this is way more
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than just being curious. I mean, really
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understanding what these signals mean is
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absolutely crucial for keeping your dog
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safe, for keeping other dogs safe, and
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just making sure the park stays a fun
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place for everybody. But here's the good
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news. In the next few minutes, we're
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going to give you the tools to basically
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become a K-9 body language expert.
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Seriously, we'll break down exactly what
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to look for so you'll know when it's
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time to step in and just as importantly,
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when you can just chill out and let them
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have their fun. Okay, so first things
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first, let's talk about what good,
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healthy play actually looks like.
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Because here's the thing, it's not
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always quiet and gentle. Sometimes the
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best doggy fun can look pretty rough and
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tumble. And let's kick things off with
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the number one most obvious can't miss
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it signal. The playbow. You know what
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I'm talking about, right? Front end
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down, butt in the air. That is the
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universal doggy sign for let's play.
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It's like they're saying, "Hey, just so
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you know, everything that happens next,
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it's all in good fun. Promise." It's
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really the golden rule of dog play.
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Okay, but it's not just the playbo.
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There are other big clues. Look for
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their bodies to be all loose and wiggly,
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almost kind of bouncy, not stiff and
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rigid. And watch for them to take turns.
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You know, one dog chases for a bit and
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then they switch and the other one does
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the chasing. Even the growls are
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different. They're usually higher
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pitched, more like a a playful grumble
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than a deep threatening sound. And this
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one is so important. They take breaks.
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They'll stop, maybe shake it off, and
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then jump back in. Oh, and you've got to
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look for the play face. That happy,
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relaxed, open mouth that kind of looks
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like a big goofy grin. Think about a dog
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like Max the Golden Retriever and Bella
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the Border Collie. Yeah, they might be
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running around nipping at each other,
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but you'll notice that every few minutes
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they'll just stop. They wag their tails.
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They take a breather. They kind of check
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in with each other. That little pause,
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that's your green light. It tells you,
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"Yep, this is all just a game." All
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right, so that's the good stuff. Now,
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let's flip the coin and look at the
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warning signs. What happens when the fun
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is over and things start to get serious?
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Well, the signals are just as clear, but
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they are the complete opposite of
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everything we just talked about. This is
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what you absolutely have to be on the
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lookout for. A body that's gone
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completely stiff, totally tense. The
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growls are low and deep. You know that
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guttural sound that comes from way down
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in their chest. You might see them
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snarling, curling their lips back to
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show their teeth. And that stare, it's a
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hard, focused, intense stare. And unlike
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play, there are zero breaks. It just
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keeps going.
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And the story of Rocky and Duke is a
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perfect and honestly a kind of chilling
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example of this. The owners noticed it.
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Their bodies went stiff and they heard
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those deep guttural growls. All the
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signs were there and boom, it escalated
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into a real fight. So look at this. A
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side by side really lays it all out. On
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one side you have play, wiggly bodies
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taking turns, playbows. On the other
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side you have fight, a stiff body, no
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roll reversal, and those raised hackles.
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You know, when the fur on their back
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stands straight up, plus those deep,
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scary growls. Seriously, think of this
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as your quick reference cheat sheet.
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Okay, now for what might be the
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trickiest part of all this. Sometimes a
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game starts out totally fine, but then
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it crosses a line. And learning to spot
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that exact moment of transition, that's
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a real pro-level skill for a dog owner.
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So, how do you know the fun is over?
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Well, first, look for it to become
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one-sided. Is one dog always on the
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defensive? Are they trying to hide, or
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are they yelping? that dog is not having
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fun anymore. Another huge red flag is
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when the intensity just keeps ramping up
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and up with no breaks to cool down. And
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you have to pay attention to the biting.
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If those playful nips suddenly become
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hard bites, especially if they're aimed
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at the face or neck, yeah, the game is
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definitely over. The story about Luna
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the Lab and Charlie the Beagle is a
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perfect example. Luna being a big lab
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was just playing way too rough for
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little Charlie. And when Charlie started
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yelping and trying to hide, that was him
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screaming, "I'm done. I don't want to
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play anymore. But Luna wasn't picking up
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on the cues, so the owners had to step
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in and handle it. Okay, so you've seen
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the red flags. You've decided you need
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to get involved. The question is, how do
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you do that without making everything
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worse or, you know, getting hurt
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yourself? Let's go through the safest
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way to break things up. All right, the
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absolute most important first step, do
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not panic. Seriously, take a deep
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breath. If you're freaking out, your
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panicked energy is just going to add
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fuel to the fire. Dogs are super
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sensitive to how we're feeling. A calm,
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confident vibe is your best weapon here.
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So, here's what you do. Step one, try to
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make a loud, surprising noise. Clap your
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hands loudly. Yell a firm command like,
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"Hey," or "Leave it." A lot of times,
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that's enough to snap them out of it. If
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that doesn't work, step two, create a
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barrier. Grab your jacket, a leash, a
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nearby chair cushion, whatever you can,
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and use it to physically get between
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them. And here is the biggest rule of
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all. Never, ever, ever use your hands to
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separate fighting dogs. That is how
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people get bit. Plain and simple. And
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once they are separated, you're not done
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yet. You can't just let them go right
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back at it. Their adrenaline is pumping.
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You've got to give them both a serious
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cooling off period, completely separated
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from each other. So, let all that stress
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and excitement come back down to zero.
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So, if we boil this all down to one
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single takeaway, it's this. Play is
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loose. It's wiggly. It's joyful. A fight
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is tense, stiff, and focused. If you can
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just remember that one simple
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difference, you'll be able to figure out
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what's going on almost every single
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time. You know, learning to read all
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these little signals. It's about more
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than just stopping a fight. It's really
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about understanding your dog on a deeper
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level. So the next time you're watching
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them play, don't just see a blur of fur.
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Really watch. Ask yourself, "What are
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they actually trying to tell me? What
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are they telling each other?" Because
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when you learn to listen with your eyes,
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you'll be amazed at what you hear.
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