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The bond between a human and their dog is a silent conversation of love, loyalty, and countless shared sunsets.
As our furry friends approach the end of their journey, many pet parents report witnessing subtle shifts in behavior that feel like a final, loving communication.
This leads us to the heart-wrenching yet beautiful question about do our dogs consciously try to say a final goodbye before they die?
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You know, the bond we have with our
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dogs, it's this amazing silent
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conversation, isn't it? It's all about
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love, loyalty, and just thousands of
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moments you share together. But what
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happens in their final chapter? So many
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of us who've been through it have seen
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these subtle little shifts in how they
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act, and it feels like something more is
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happening, something intentional. And
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that brings us to this really big
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question, one that's both beautiful and
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just completely heart-wrenching. In this
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explainer, we're going to explore the
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instincts, the behaviors, and the
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stories that might help us understand
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the quiet ways our best friends seem to
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prepare us for their departure. So,
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let's start to unravel this silent
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conversation together. This thought
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really sets the stage for everything
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we're about to talk about. It's this
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idea that their love doesn't just vanish
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at the end. It just changes. It gets
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quieter, softer, and maybe even more
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profound. All right, so let's dive in
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and explore what this final loving
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communication can actually look like.
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And we're not doing this to focus on the
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sadness, but really as a way to honor
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that incredible connection we get to
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have with them. Okay, so to really get
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this, we've got to go back, like way
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back, back to their roots in the wild.
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Our dogs, just like their wolf
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ancestors, are pack animals. And this
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instinct, it's so deeply coded in them
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that it's the first huge clue in this
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mystery. So, here's the thing that's
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absolutely crucial to understand. This
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is not about rejection. In the wild, if
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a wolf got sick or weak, it would
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actually move away from the pack. But
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why? Well, it was to avoid attracting
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predators. It was a final selfless act
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of protection. And in your home, you are
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their pack. And what's so fascinating is
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how this one instinct can show up in two
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totally opposite ways. Some dogs become
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our little shadows, right? They need
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constant contact, just soaking up every
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last moment with their pack. But then
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others follow that ancient instinct to
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pull away, to find a quiet spot. And
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they're not pushing us away. They're
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trying to protect us. Both behaviors
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come from the exact same place, this
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powerful love for their family. So,
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let's move from instinct to action. How
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do our dogs actually communicate with us
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in those final days? Well, they have
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this rich silent language and it can
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become incredibly powerful and clear if
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we know what to look for. One of the
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most amazing examples is something
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people call eyehugging. You know that
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look, that deep, soulful gaze that just
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holds for a second longer than usual,
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that's not in your head. That kind of
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eye contact is a real bonding behavior.
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It literally releases oxytocin, the love
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hormone, in both you and your dog. It's
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their way of trying to connect with you
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on the absolute deepest level possible.
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And then there's this incredible
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phenomenon called the last rally. This
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is when a dog who has been really weak
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and tired suddenly perks up. They might
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get up, wag their tail, maybe even grab
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a toy. Now, it can be confusing and give
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you a bit of false hope, but vets often
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see this as a final beautiful gift. It's
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one last moment of their old self,
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creating one last happy memory for you
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before they rest. And really, the list
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of these quiet goodbyes just goes on. It
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could be them making a point to gently
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nuzzle every single person in the
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family, or maybe offering you their
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favorite, most chewed-up toy. It might
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be as simple as resting their head on
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your foot one last time. All these
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little things, they're not random. They
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feel like deliberate acts of love. To
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really see how profound these moments
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can be, let me share a story from the
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source material. It's about Bella, a
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Labrador who'd been with her owner,
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Sarah, for 14 years. On her final
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morning, Bella was on her blankets, and
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she was just too weak to even lift her
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head. The vet had come to the house so
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Bella could pass peacefully at home. And
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while the vet got ready, Sarah knelt
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down right beside her best friend, just
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whispering all her thank yous and
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goodbyes for a whole lifetime of love.
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And right at that moment, as Sarah was
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finishing, something incredible
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happened. Bella, who seemed barely
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conscious, started to move, and you
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could tell it took every last bit of
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energy she had. She managed to turn her
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head, find Sarah's hand, and she gave
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one single gentle lick. That one little
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gesture, something she'd done thousands
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of times out of pure joy, was now
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delivered with her last ounce of
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strength. It was a complete, perfect
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goodbye, all in one conscious action.
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Wow. Bella's story, it really shows us
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their side of things, doesn't it? But it
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also shines a bright light on our role
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in all of this. Because our dogs aren't
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just driven by instinct. They're
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incredibly emotionally intelligent, and
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how we feel plays a huge part in their
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final journey. I mean, they are absolute
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masters at reading us. They feel our
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sadness, our stress, our grief. And a
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lot of experts believe that a dog's
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final actions are often their attempt to
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comfort us, to try and soo our emotions
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and let us know it's okay. It's just an
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unbelievable display of empathy. And
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that's why this is so important to
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remember. Our calmness is the greatest
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gift we can give them. When we can
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manage to create a peaceful, serene
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space, we're sending them a clear
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message. We're telling them the pack is
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safe, that we're going to be all right,
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and that it's okay for them to finally
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let go and rest. Look, we all know
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navigating this time is just
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unbelievably hard and making those final
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decisions can feel impossible. That's
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where a tool like this quality of life
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scale, which vets use all the time, can
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be so, so helpful. It lets you take a
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step back from all the heavy emotion for
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a second and just look at their life
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objectively. You can assess things like
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their pain, their mobility, and maybe
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the most important one, are they still
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finding happiness in their favorite
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things? It's designed to bring just a
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little bit of clarity to what is
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ultimately the most difficult but also
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the most loving decision we ever have to
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make for them. So, we come back to that
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big question we started with. Do our
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dogs say goodbye? And maybe the answer
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isn't a simple yes or no. Maybe the real
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answer is about what these final moments
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truly mean for the bond that we share
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with them. You know, in the end, whether
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it's a deep-seated instinct to protect
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the pack or a conscious, intentional act
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of love, does it really matter? What
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matters is the communication itself.
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These final gestures are just this
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powerful, beautiful testament to a
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connection that is truly unbreakable.
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This quote just says it all really. It
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validates that feeling we get in those
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last moments. That sense that they are
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making sure we know, making sure we know
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they loved us, too. And that is a gift
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that we get to carry with us forever.
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You know, going through this journey, as
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painful as it is, it changes you. It
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deepens our own ability to feel empathy
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and compassion. It's their final
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powerful lesson to us about how
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important it is to cherish every single
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moment we have with the ones we love.
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And so that leaves us with one last
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thought to carry with us. Their goodbye
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isn't really an end. It's a
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transformation of that bond. It just
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becomes a part of our story. So the real
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question isn't whether they say goodbye.
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It's how do we choose to honor a love
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that in so many ways never truly ends.
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